Hi Katherine, thanks for responding. I believe my son in law does want to discuss, a will and advance planning. My daughter ( I believe is in denial ) about this devastating illness and it's advanced stage. We don't won't her to feel we a giving up on her plans for a cure. We know it's important to have these affairs in place , but her mind won't go there. They own 2 farms and run a business from the farm. She is a Police officer on leave. I really want to help with this but, I'm feeling stuck. I am a RN recently retired.