Dear Mary,
As Tracie said, this is exactly what our community is for, a place to vent and be heard. I don't see this as feeling sorry for yourself - I see this as you having a safe place in which to be honest. It must be so hard and lonely not being able to share your fears and feelings with George.
Mary I am concerned that your health will be compromised even more. I know you want to keep George at home – would you be able to get more homecare? Or would you able to afford to hire help – maybe at night so you can get some rest?
Katherine