Hi Cowtown,
Welcome to Virtual Hospice.
First off, to clarify the rules around sharing personal blogs - absolutely okay. JennJilks, Mark99 and Passirose also share some of their blog posts (either as links or cutting and pasting excerpts) when things they've written are relevant to a conversation here. Other people link to articles they found helpful and relevant. Commercial postings - selling services or goods - are understandably frowned upon. Personal blogs usually don't fall into this category and your definitely doesn't.
I'm glad you've met Marstin. She is such a supportive force in our community. There are several people caring for their partners. For example, please meet:
There are also other members, like Marstin, who have been there and will support you along the way. You are not alone.
Colleen