CarrieK, How are you? I apologize that it has taken so long. I am sure you knw about all the things to do. I am so glad that I have someone to talk to. I have been so busy with my husband. My husband has stage 1v breast cancer with mets to all of his bones, including the entire spine, hips, shoulders, sternum, ribs, both femurs, knees, pelvis and recently the liver. He has a tumor pressing against the trachea and some nodes in his lungs with involvement. I don't full understand the nodes in the lungs. Well, I have been trying to figure out what to do, because i don't know what to do. He has gotten worse in the past month. We have home health, not hospice. I feel like it may be time for hospice. He is extremely weak. Lost a lot of weight, and now he has bowel and bladder incontinence. he can barely stand now. I just finished cleaning him up. He has no control over urinating. We just had an mri, and we will get the results tomorrow. I don't think he needs chemo again. He is too weak and has lost a lot of weight. I am praying that the dr would just let it go, but my husband has some fight in him. I am so scared because I don't really know what to do now. I lost my mother to cancer a little over a year ago, so I know some of the symptoms and I believe I am going through the same with my husband. So unsure, because I have seen him bounce back quickly. This time I don't know if he will. Lost a lot of weight.