Thanks for the information, SusanG. I will check out the Soul Pancake site. Have you told the story of your daughter elsewhere on the Virtual Hospice site? If so, could you copy and paste it into this link? If you haven't posted your story here, could you? We are a very caring community and welcome you with open arms. I have found that writing is a great way to deal with my emotions. In certain circumstances it can even be a cathartic experience. - ekim