Hello everyone,
First time posting, but I am looking for others who are walking a similar path as me.
My father was told last week that he was pallative by his oncologist and no further treatment is available. He was diagnosed with stage 4 non-hodgkins lymphoma. He was home for a few days but is presently in the hospital and will be meeting with pallative care today. Sadly, he doesn't get that his time is limited and keeps saying that he is going to Germany for treatment. As you can imagine, my brother and I don't think he would survive the trip.
I also live in a other province and my brother is in BC. My dad is in Quebec. To further complicate things, my father was living with my 90 year old grandma and though she is in decent shape, she also has some health issues.
Needless to say, it's a lot and I do want what is best for him, but I also know time is limited.
I am curious if anyone else has tried to support someone at the end stage of life fr a distance?
Thank you 🙂