You have been in our thoughts, Lyndz. I’m glad that you are finding us to be a good resource.
I like the saying, “The world is divided into two groups: those who wear the T-shirt that says, ‘Excuse me, I believe that you are mistaking me for someone who gives a S_ _T.’ And those who wear the T-Shirt that says, ’I care, I really do’. Here, at VirtualHospice we ‘wear’ the T-Shirt that says, ‘At VirtualHospice.ca, We Care’
OK, dumb “Grandpa Joke”, but your closing sentence did say, “Wishing you all laughter & love, and sending you the warmest thankful wishes I can muster. “
Counter-intuitively, laughter and humour are important during the grief process. I have found that with my volunteer work with grieving families that humour and laughter does play apart.
After all, there is so much sadness when you focus on it. A smile or a chuckle is a welcome respite at times. Take it as part of the “self-care” process. And relish in it – don’t ever feel guilty.
So, thanks for your wish for laughter, Lyndz. Please remember that we are wishing the same for you. Take those welcome and necessary breaks.
I found that when my Dad passed away, it was followed by much sadness for me every time I thought of him. Then one day, he entered my mind and a big smile came across my face. I had thought of a funny story that involved the two of us.
And honestly, Lyndz, every time I think of him now, I smile. I’ll remember one his silly “DadJokes”. It’s like he’s tapping me on the shoulder and saying “Meecho – his nickname for me – you haven’t thought of me in a while.”
I’ve got more to say, but being a garrulous Irishman, I have to reign myself. Lol
Ps If you keep writing, I’ll keep answering.
- eKim