Dear NatR,
My sincere condolences. What a heavy burden you are placing on yourself. It remains a mystery to me why we clutch at emotions like guilt and anger when we should be kind to ourselves in our loss. You have listened and guided so many people in this community through their journeys with loss. Let us now hold you, comfort you and be my your side. It is your turn.
Be kind and non-judgmental to the little girl who just lost her mom. You need your kindness for you now.
Love and peace,
Colleen