Dear frustrated,
So how can one enjoy every minute with a partner who has changed and who isn't enjoyable? Such a tough question and I surely don't have the answer. As NatR says, you are not alone in dealing with this situation and I hope others will post some tips about how they managed to get through the tough side of caregiving and keep their mental health.
You may wish to write your question to our professional team, perhaps our social worker Fred Nelson or our nurse specialists can help. They are soooo amazing and can see to the core of the issue and offer suggestions. You can write to them here:
You may also want to read the thread:
Frankly, I could use any tips people have to share with Frustrated for my family member too.
Talk to you soon.
Colleen