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Reply by Cath1
04 Nov 2012, 12:27 PM

For CarolynMarie


Lovely


Babe


In the morning of life


First breath blushing


Hushed to sleep on mother’s breast


Wrapped in safety, warmed by love, content


Unknowing, ember glowing in the world


Bright and beautiful, the flame is lit


Eternal, pure, nothing will extinguish it


Life creates


Forever


Girl


Curious, wide-eyed, world beckoning


Furtive steps lead to confidence, growing


Music and laughter, books and water, branches climbing


Rhyming words and capricious dreams, running free


Windy days and sunny skies, thunder of life, electric blue


Flowering blossom of possibility, hope unlimited


True


Woman


Wine and song, eyes of wonder, wistful, searching, striving


Mysterious and magnetic, dancing heartbeats and silence


Significant the senses, brilliant jewel, humility befriending pride


Struggle, triumph to survive, long the ordinary days, timelessness


Power and presence, grand pursuits, small victories, work and truth


Life


Wife


Connected, babe, girl, woman to the babe, boy, man, rings of fire fanned


Circles of life, round and round, emotions soften and harden and mold


Two into one, the sun and the moon, rooted in love and in need, in perpetuity


Romance, two souls dancing on shifting sands, adapting, changing, hand in hand


Elevated, stars collide, morning and night, love shines, reflected in the eyes of the other


Gratitude and grace, time and experience cannot erase a moment or a memory or a vow


Love is a promise, a choice, a soothing voice, a soft embrace, the smiles and wrinkles and tears on a face


Love inhabits the soul, travels with it wherever it roams; love surpasses all time and space, to thrive


Alive and limitless, endless, enduring, faithful, forgiving, glorious, gracious, grounded and spacious


The place love willingly rests is the sweet home of the heart and the familiar depths of shared souls


Made whole, made one, destiny will not be undone; fate shines upon one another, lovers forevermore


Gazing together toward a golden horizon yet to be seen, lovers anchored and adrift in the same dream


Eyes fixed on the shadowy expanse of distant seas and shores, emotions betwixt and between, yet


Faith endures, the dance of lovers, their music, their song, bewitched by the other, their dance lives on


Moving with Nature, wailing against the wind, watching the tide rush in, waiting for it whisper out again


Wishful


Mother


Biggest heart ever known before or since, wince at the thought, so precious and painfully sweet


A woman, a wife, a life complete the moment a child fills the world and its empty spaces with pure joy


Boy, then girl, an endless merry-go-round of memories, smiles captured in sepia tones, at home, at last


Vast the reaches of a mother’s boldest dreams, babes in arms, swaddled, prized and precious charms


No harm shall come to those a mother loves and fiercely protects with iron will and velvet gloves, love


Of a mother for her child is mighty noble, pride above the clouds, deep as the emerald ocean and warm,


Gentle, like a tropical sea wind, like the calm after a storm, childbirth and all its painful hours, gently


Washed away like rain on a summer day, a cool breeze to ease her memory as showers bless her soul,


Her children, like flowers growing, beautiful, are rooted by her love, blossoms thriving, fragrant and free


Naturally instinctive is a great mother’s love as she touches her child, her treasure, ever so lightly, and


In the face of innocence and wonder where all her dreams began, she sees sparkling eyes and blue skies


To find in herself new strength, her feet planted on the ground, her head high above the clouds of love


And she carries with her, history, as she sets her children’s gaze firmly upon a future unknown, courage


She shows them, she leads the way; she saves the day time and again, living, giving, and teaching them


How to live, but most especially how to love, and no matter what the day may bring, she smiles through


And if she has a moment when she feels blue or lost and lonely, her children suddenly save the day with


A grin, a tear, a hug or a kiss, bliss it is when a mother is loved as deeply as this, so sweetly, completely


 


Babe, girl, woman, wife, mother and friend, sweet Carolyn, the love you give and receive will never end


Anchored safely you are in the arms of love, adrift in infinite oceans and hearts, and in the skies above,


You have Angels with you and around you, watching over and within you, reminding you, you are loved


And no matter how shadowy may be the night, remember sweetheart, your soul is a magnificent light


Refined by love and hope, spirit and courage, pure and true, the light I imagine is the one and only you


Your light is a shining star in the night sky guiding you home, and wherever love lives you will not be alone


 


With endless affection   -hugs -  -xo-


Cath1

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Reply by NatR
04 Nov 2012, 12:34 PM

Beautiful words of a beautiful person 
Thank you Cath1 for expressing such warmth love and enduring spirit

i am sure Carolyn Marie is all those things- and that someone will read those comforting words to her

sending my best wishes to Carolyn today along with your lovely words
NatR 
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06 Nov 2012, 10:18 PM

Carolyn is being moved to a residential hospice today! She's very excited as this means she'll be able to get visits from her dogs as well as her family and friends. 
Colleen 
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Reply by Cath1
06 Nov 2012, 11:14 PM

Very happy news about CarolynMarie's move to a residential hospice today! I'm sure it will make a world of difference for her and her family, including the four-legged members!:) Woot! Woot! or should I say, Woof! Woof!:)

Thank you for the update, Colleen!   

With affection -hugs- -xo-
Cath1  


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Reply by Nicasha
07 Nov 2012, 3:59 AM

Cath1,
What lovely words you have spoken for Carolyn.  I am a friend of hers and am truly amazed how many people Carolyn has touched.  I know her family have seen some of these post and have been truly affected by all the communities kind words.  Your poem is so beautiful, I don't know if you wrote it or not, but it is perfect, it is like it was writen just for her. Carolyn's is a poet and would love this!
Thank you so very much,
Sharon  
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Reply by Cath1
07 Nov 2012, 7:04 PM

Dear Sharon:

Thank you so much for your kind feedback! Thank you as well NatR!

Yes, I did write the poem exclusively for Carolyn (CarolynMarie to me:) and with only her in my mind and heart. She has indeed touched many lives and softened hearts and she remains an inspiration to all of us! She has the soul of an artist and upon her life, the life she shares so honestly and openly with those she loves and those who cherish her, she signs her love and creates a masterpiece!

I strongly believe in intuitive connections between people and I have felt this type of connection between CarolynMarie and I since she first began sharing her story here with us, as have other members here as well.  I have said before to her that I feel I know her even though we have not met in person, we have most definitely met in spirit.

Please send CarolynMarie and her family and friends - including you - our warmest wishes for a good day today! I know all those who love her best are making the most difference to her. We are honoured to be a part of any small comfort she receives.

Please feel welcome to share your feelings here with us any time, Sharon and extend the invitation to CarolynMarie's inner circle. You are all welcome to join in our discussion and to seek and receive support if needed. Like the hauntingly beautiful lyrics in the song by Sarah MacLaughlin, In the Arms of the Angel: I hope you find some comfort here.

With affection -hugs- xo
Cath1  


  
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Reply by SharonMarie
07 Nov 2012, 9:07 PM

Cath1, that is truly amazing that you wrote that for her.  I do not have the words to say how much this means.  I will make sure her family, expecially her children see it.  I can understand how you have formed a special bond with her, she has that effect on people.  She is an special person, who I will never forget.  I also felt that connection with her when I first met her nineteen years ago.  She is like a sister to me and I miss her so much already.  Again thank you so very much, you too are one of Carolyn's (CarolynMarie's) Angels.
Sharon
ps I somehow messed up my email address and had to create another account, so I choose SharonMarie (that is my middle name too and since I am on here for Carolyn, seemed fitting) instead of Nicasha.
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07 Nov 2012, 10:49 PM

Welcome SharonMarie (Nicasha) to Virtual Hospice.
We're delighted that you've come to share with us. Carolyn has touched us all and we hope our words help support her family and friends who envelope her with love.
Colleen 
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Reply by Tian
07 Nov 2012, 11:33 PM

I don't have anything profound to say. I'm hoping that all the exquisite words and sentiments expressed here rub off on me in some way. Thanks again Carolyn for providing me the privilege of observing your valor and grace. I'm not surprised that you have wonderful friends there caring for you.

Tian 
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Reply by Cath1
08 Nov 2012, 5:12 AM

Dear CarolynMarie:

Thinking of you and your family and friends tonight! I hope you are setting into your new place. I know it will be a cosy and welcoming space because you are in it!:) I wrote a poem for you called "Hope". 

 


Hope


For the sun to rise to the delight of your eyes on this one day


Hope


For shining skies to lighten your mood and to soothe your brave spirit


Hope


For the presence of children and pets, and the silly sound of laughter


Hope


For awakening senses and a heartbeat to thrill you long after you hear it


 


Hope


For a loving, gentle touch of a warm hand and a kind word on this one day


Hope


For the strength to surrender to safe and sound slumber when you feel sleepy


Hope


For familiar, tender voices whispering to you words wrapped in courage and calm


Hope


For cleansing tears to wash away fear and unburden your body when you feel weepy


 


Hope


For peace and comfort found in friendly faces and places that feel like home on this one day


Hope


For the scent of roses and chamomile tea and the aroma of a home cooked meal and fresh fruit


Hope


For a true friend beside you to stroke your brow and to reassure you that you are not ever alone


Hope


For grace to live in the moment, to simply be, to set yourself free from worry to fly on wings of truth


 


Hope


For trust in life and in you and in the beauty of lasting love surrounding you and yours on this one day


Hope


For family to hold you, to sit with you in intimate silence that speaks clear of their dear love and care


Hope


For words of love to echo in your heart and profound gestures of caring to uplift you, body and soul


Hope


For harmony and poetry and a star in the night sky meant just for you to create wishes and prayers


 


Hope


For the moon to glow warmly as the light of compassion to shine mercy upon mystery on this one night


Hope


For the feel of your husband’s moist kiss on your cheek, a magic portal and safe passage to his dreams


Hope


For time with your children to see them smiling and strong and safe in the heart of the mother they love


Hope


For a chorus of guardian Angels on earth and high above to serenade you to sleep on a promise of peace


 


Hope

Wishing you hope to help you get through each moment. Goodnight and sweet dreams for now, sweet CarolynMarie.

With endless affection -hugs- -xo-
Cath1    


   

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