Hi Dannigirl72,
Welcome, and thank-you for reaching out to the forum for support. It is never easy to find ourselves on the other side of the fence and I wish that this was not happening for you. You have expressed a desire to connect with others who are experiencing a similar diagnosis, I hope someone will come forward on the forum, and also wanted to know if you have explored anything in your community? I am not sure where you are located but many hospitals or health centres have information on how to connect with others who may have received similar diagnoses.
Although I do not have experience with colon cancer, I would like to share that my experience with illness in my family has taught me to approach any exploration of treatment options through the lens of what is important to me. I was told to never sacrifice what I truly care about and the shocking revelation for me in that was that I had never really thought about what I truly cared about, not at the deeper level that would provide me with the answers I needed. Here are a few questions that I find helpful to ask myself:
What do I understand about this diagnosis?
What are my worries?
What is most important to me and what trade-offs am I willing to make/not make?
Exploring the answers to these questions helps to guide me in my decision making. I have also come to realize that they are not questions that can only be asked once but that need to be revisited again and again as the situation and ultimately my perspective changes.
I hope that this may be of some help to you or that you find your own way of making this experience tolerable. Please let us know how it is going.
Wishing you peace for the New Year.
Carole